Lasting Influence

By Teri Dorrell

Looking back over 2023, I am amazed at how quickly the year flew by. Each year, it seems to go faster and faster (I know, I know—I am getting older, and it works that way), but on the positive side, I am also becoming more reflective. Who did I influence this past year for the good? In what area did I make a difference? Will my investment matter or even last past the moment? I think each of us desires that our lives would count in eternity, but the question is: How will I make it count and last?

I would like to share two ways that have helped my influence. First, be purposeful about it. Know who you want to invest in and how you will make that investment. Nothing in life just happens! It will help if you are specific and selective. For instance, it is not helpful for me to say I want to influence the ladies at Eastland Baptist Church, but it is purposeful to pick one lady a month or a lady younger and older than me and influence them. As for how—the sky’s the limit! Taking her to lunch, writing a note, going out for coffee or shopping (woohoo), even making a meal for her to be a blessing to her family, being a patient listener or encourager—again, the sky is the limit!

Second, be repetitive. The things that have impacted me most were the ones I experienced repeatedly. Growing up, my father often told me, “Don’t sweat the small stuff.” He wanted me to remember not to worry about all life’s small, petty things. Repetition can be in how you live your life to influence others and what you say and do to influence others. Constant repetition carries conviction; it is a very effective tool.  

One investment probably isn’t going to have influence that will last, but a weekly touch will. A meaningful quote said often will be retained. Daily, Christ-like character lived out at work or home will have that eternal impact we all desire! Today, decide to be purposeful and repetitive about your influence.